There’s a unique kind of heartbreak that comes with watching life unfold differently than you planned. Our worth is not defined by our timelines and our value is not measured by what we’ve accomplished by a certain age. 

I’m gonna say something that might ruffle a few feathers or might surprise you coming from a coach—your goals are too big. 

And before you abandon this post or send me your “dream big” quotes, hear me out. I want you to dream big. I want you to want all the things. I want you to succeed. But if you keep making huge goals without any plan or systems to support you, I’m afraid you won’t reach those goals you're aiming for. 

If you’re setting goals, I encourage you to ask yourself these three questions: